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Ten Commandments For Disagreeing With Others

Ten Commandments For Disagreeing With Others

“Forward Day by Day” is a pamphlet sponsored by the Episcopal Church and the following list, with slight modifications, was taken from the January 30, 2013 edition. These commandments have universal application. We suggest you try them out the next time you find yourself in a disagreeable situation.

(1) Seek to discover the best and strongest points in the other’s position;

(2) Give other people credit for sincerity;

(3) Do not listen to gossip and second-hand information;

(4) Avoid classifying people;

(5) Emphasize agreements;

(6) When others criticize, try to bring out favorable points;

(7) When there is misunderstanding, go directly to the parties involved when possible;

(8)  Try to remember that there is a higher power that is too big for any one mind;

(9) Never ridicule another’s faith;

(10) Pray for those with whom you differ.

Suicides in the U.S. Military: An Epidemic; What about Workers’ Compensation?

In 2012, suicides in the U.S. military were at a record high of 349, which was higher than the 295 American combat deaths in Afghanistan in 2012. This number is up from 301 in 2011. The Pentagon has had a difficult time dealing with this epidemic, which likely stems from military personnel being in combat for more than a decade in Afghanistan and Iraq, complicated by anxiety over being forced out of the military due to a “shrinking force.”

In 2011, 65% of soldiers who attempted suicide had a history of behavioral problems; however, only 45% of those who actually killed themselves had such a history. If there are signs that these service members were asking for help, they were not getting the help that they needed.

What’s interesting is that the U.S. military keeps statistics on suicides, and when the numbers go up to alarming rates the  hope is that something will be done to investigate. For years, workers’ compensation lawyers have heard about suicides from employees who did not get proper medical care, who could not handle the abuse that sometimes happens within the system, and who could no longer stand the pain of permanent injuries, disability and resulting depression. But where are the statistics on these deaths? The insurance industry either has this information or it could get it. As a matter of public policy, should they be required to report it?